Clínica Veterinaria Móvil

The importance of fathers

The company always attached greater importance to the role of women in child-rearing. However, the father's role is crucial, both for the proper development of children and for their future adult life.

While mothers tend to dominate the education of children, parents also play an important role in their psychological development, emotional and social. Men can have much influence on their children, should only speak and move "better" time with them (not always possible to spend more time, nor is it crucial in relation to quality).

Children who grow from birth to a great influence of their fathers in their education tend to have more defined identities, and have greater ability to retain significant ties, greater abilities to play alone and safer ways to compete, enhance and maximize their capabilities. A parent close and positive, often becomes a model to be emulated by the child and makes it safer and more ability to adapt to life, to develop future projects for the development of the record and conduct self yes , For greater capacity to make decisions and solve problems.

Sometimes, parents tend to dismiss their role and value of their involvement in their children's education under the argument that they should deal with issues far more important for the functioning of the household, such as work. Nothing restores the lost time in bringing up a child, something that is certainly not a job, but a pleasure. And parents should know that his absence during your child's development will happen on either account in the future. The lack of father figure, not only refers to missing real and the father physically, but to the "virtual absence of the father", although living with him, does not act in the presence of life in emotional and educational levels the relationship with the child.

In families where there is no father figure, the mother should try to find a male figure to replace this role, and become a positive role model for their children. Children need of that figure during its development, and can benefit greatly by building a strong and healthy bond with a grandparent, an uncle, a leader of youth groups, a priest or a male friend who assume a protective role. What is really important for a father figure is available, it is stimulating, present, affectionate-as well as dial-limits at home and in the life of the child.

             The profile of a father who contributes more to the smooth development of all capacities of the child, includes:

-- A person recognized for its work effectively and responsibly.

-- You have clear ideas and a well-defined approach, firm but not tax. Distinguished by its consistency and common sense.

-- Integrity and high moral principles, honesty, kindness and authenticity.

-- Constant desire to overcome, to upgrade and improve its achievements.

-- A father warm, empathic and friendly, and very close dialogue that seeks to always listen to the child, rather than impose its reasoning opinion by force.

-- You have moral authority it preaches by example and acting in a controlled, rational, calmly and respect.

-- It is expressive person, directly and without bending, who says what he thinks and everyone knows where they stand with him.

-- Let the child be himself and educates him to be autonomous and well known to use their freedom.

-- Recognizes their failures and mistakes of those who tries to learn and teach by example to recognize his son and correct in what they can.

 

 

 

Some suggestions to get involved with the education of a child:

Forming a "team" to help with daily tasks of the house.

Enjoying hobbies together.

Hold talks and confidences. For this, it's very good to make an outing alone with each child, hopefully outdoors and without distractor that hampers communication.

Be sensitive to your child's needs and respond to them. An "I'm busy" or "tell me later" may involve a knot that is not resolved and it becomes painful for the child.

Participating in the discipline and care of the child, without contradicting the rules of the mother.

While one might think that the father figure is more necessary for the son and the mother is the principal model for the daughter, a good bond between father and daughter is essential for the development of girls. He is the father who teaches respect, to interact with the opposite sex and put their feet on earth.

 

The father brings him to her daughter:

 

-- Model male treatment: The treatment of the father toward the mother influences what they expect the daughters of male female relationship, what we consider normal in the future.

-- Openness to the world: If the parent is more embedded in the world outside the home that the mother can provide criteria of openness, news and announcements. Also the father brings out a list of hazards that can be found in the outside world and the need for protection.

-- Sense of protection against the dangers of life: For reasons of physical strength and overall availability of economic resources from home, the father is seen by children, particularly daughters, as a source of protection.

-- Sense of self: A degree of conditionality, more common among parents than among mothers, it is necessary for children to develop criteria for self. Somehow the whole have not guaranteed carries raised to meet targets and efforts to make.

-- Sense of the male: The father's daughter provides a first model of what male, determined that somehow their relationship with men (uncles, parents, friends, teachers, colleagues, friends).

-- Sense of parenthood: It is an internal model necessary for daughters can propose in their relationship as mothers, fathers with their children, some essential aspects.

For my father, Alberto Rose Vogel, who died at the dawn of the twenty-first century, who taught me to read and write and showed me the values of accountability, simplicity, love of neighbor, effort and persistence.

Agnes G. Rose Fischer, Director of School Psychology, University of St. Thomas